Hey I would like to introduce my spouse to vibrator sex. Any helpful hints, have tried some vibrating massagers and gotten "doesn't do anything for me, or maybe something more on the spot". HELP!!

 -Matthew

Hi there Matt,

     Hmmm, not really sure how to tackle this question, it's kind of not enough info for me.  I'm not sure about why your wife would say "doesn't do anything for me" or "maybe something more on the spot".  I'm not sure what kind of vibrator you are looking for but there are different kinds for sure.  If she wants something more on the spot, does she mean clitoral or g-spot?  If I were her and I was saying that something wasn't doing something for me I would assume that it was a vaginal vibrator and she doesn't have g-spot orgasms.  In that case a clitoral orgasm would definitely be "More on the Spot!"  There are vibrators that slip over your finger so you can easily stimulate your own clit or if you wear it you can stimulate it by wrapping your arms around her from behind.  There are little pocket rockets that are small little guys that can be directed right at her clitoris.  There are strap on type vibrators that slip over her thighs and stay positioned right over her clit so you can still penetrate her and the controls are remote which means either one of you can control the speed.  But maybe she does want g-spot stimulation and in that case there are vibrators that are curved in such ways that there is no way to miss the g-spot.  They make them with pointy heads and flat heads and jelly-like heads and nubby heads, oh man I could go on forever.  If you give me more info I might be able to point you in the right direction.  Hope this helped in the meanwhile.  Have fun trying!

-Crystal