Hello Everyone!

     I sat here tonight looking over the blogs I’ve received and I’m so happy to have readers write in.  Don't think it has to be a question necessarily for you guys to post.  Even comments, reviews, opinions, thoughts...nonsense and blather are happily accepted, also.  All the questions are great and I have so much fun helping with my experience and knowledge.  One thing that I am disappointed about is the lack of men that will write in.  Women, are you seeing a pattern here?  Women are always complaining that men don’t understand us.  Isn’t it because there is a lack of communication?  Maybe a fear that if men ask questions that you will look dumb or inexperienced?  Come on guys!  Just because you have been with one woman doesn’t mean the next woman is gonna be the same.  You could be with a thousand women and you still won't know half the things the one you just met tonight might like.  And let me tell you guys, if you are doing to woman #2 all the things woman #1 liked I can guarantee you that 75% of what you are doing, she ain’t liking!  We are all different.  Ask, learn, delve into sex information and eat it up while you can!  We are all so different!  I’m sure there are a gazillion of you guys out there right now scratching your little five o’clock shadows wondering why if when you flicked Sheila's clit from side to side it would give her a back-breaking orgasm; but when you do it to Lisa, she lays there like a dead fish….Sex Advice By Crystal to the rescue!  You know why Lisa is laying there like a dead fish?  Because you didn’t whisper your hot, warm breath over her pussy while you were flicking it sideways and ask her if she liked it this way….or (flicking your tongue up and down on her clit) do you like it better this way?  Or maybe Theresa, who you had over last night, likes it when you put two fingers in her pussy and massage her g-spot with that ever so important “come over here” motion with your fingers.  I know!  Jackie likes it when you put a thumb in her pussy and work your forefinger into her ass and pretend you are rubbing your two fingers together while you suck on her clit, giving her girl head.  See!  We are all different…(but you can do all of the above to me and make me throw my back out!)  My point is guys…ask questions.  It doesn’t have to be scientific; I’m not telling you to take out a pen and paper.  Just try things, watch for our reactions.  If you are too embarrassed to ask her, ask me.  I will do my best to lead you in the right direction.  Sometimes by trying different things you can teach us stuff about us we never knew and in return blow our minds.  Then we will really be on your jock....and more willing to return the favor.    ;-)            

- Crystal