Crystal,

Man... I'm pretty desperate. My girl is pretty much the hottest chick ever right? You'd think I would be stoked and just hold my head up high when ever she's around? WRONG! She is too hot for her own good and knows it. She comes and goes when she is in the mood for some hardcore sex but right after it she gets up and takes off! WTF?! At first, I was like what ever... I'm a man and that was pretty hot... but now i'm left feeling a bit used? I get hit on by hot chicks all the time.. so I know we make a good match... Everytime I bring this shit up she laughs and says: "Awh, you're so cute"... and tells me it's all in my head... she says that time is her biggest enemy and if she has to go... then she has to go! What is that suppose to mean?! The sex is amazing... but it's just not doing it for me anymore... Am I wrong for feeling this way? Do you think i'm not really satisfying her and that's why she is quick to jam out the door? What can I do? Waste my time... and hit it and quit it... or what? FYI: This just happened about 10 minutes ago... AGAIN! She banged the hell out of me and took off.. she didn't even bother to take her panties with her! I feel so lame...

Thanks,

Mike from Encino

Wow Mike, so the tables have turned...your bitch is so hot she can come and go as she pleases.  She use you for some good dick and then runs?  Hmmm, I'm used to getting this complaint from the opposite sex.  But what lots of girls don't know is that guys can feel used too.  Maybe in the beginning it seemed fun and even hot.  But now you are sitting there wondering if you have been used, and if you have, whether you like it or not.  I think it's time you really stop her and tell her how you feel, without letting her blow you off by telling you that you are cute and how sweet you are.  Tell her you are starting to feel unappreciated.  Put it in "I" terms.  Ask her if you are doing something wrong that is making her want to run off on you.  And if you guys are together, why aren't you spending time together not humping like bunnies?  But to answer your other question, I think if you weren't pleasing her she wouldn't be coming back for more.  I am positive that it all boils down to a communication problem.  Quit letting her run off, talk to her.  Even if that means holding her clothes hostage until she'll talk!

-Crystal