sup crystal

I've known my booty call since 2001 we even dated before we became each others booty call. He got some other girl pregnant while we were together and we stopped being each other's booty call for a while. My question is does me having feelings for my booty call normal? Because i see him with other girls and it gets me angry. He knows how to satisfy a girl and just thinking about him satisfying another girl that isn't me gets me mad. What do I do?

Anna
in Phoenix

What's up Anna,

      Great question, thanks for writing...One thing that stands out for me is the length of time you have been seeing this "booty call" as you name it.  To me, having a booty call for that long sounds more like a relationship to me.  Booty calls are supposed to come and go and get you over dry spells and what not.  Have you not had a serious relationship in 7 years?  It is very normal for a woman especially to start to harbor feelings for someone we are intimate with for this long of a time.  It's in our nature to be jealous and protective.  I wouldn't say it's a bad thing, but in a relationship where the feelings aren't reciprocated, it can lead to hurt.  And you are starting to see this already.  That's good that sex is great with him, but I say it's time to trade him in for a newer model.  Sex can be good with anyone if they are willing to learn and you are willing to teach.  If you know you and your "booty call's" relationship isn't gonna go anywhere, I suggest expanding your horizons...Hope this helps, feel free to write back.  Thank you so much!

 -Crystal