What up Crystal!

So, straight to the point here. I am fucking 3 guys right now... and though i'm loving it i'm starting to wonder if it really is as bad as it sounds? They are steady guys, and I basically fuck one of them at least once a week. We are using protection, ALL THE TIME - but do you think this is a nasty habit to have? I like all three of them and really don't want to give up anyone of them... call me greedy but I love my men and want to keep it this way. Each one has something I really like... and what one doesn't have the other 2 will make up for! I just recently noticed that I'm becoming a bit of a bitch during sex... sometimes I forget that the guy i'm fucking isn't the same one that knows exactly where to touch me... and I get really mad... then i'm like okay... you're not the one.. in my mind... So i'm kind of in debate with myself right now... my sex life is suffering from having 3 guys but at the same time, I don't want to give any of them up... I have to make a decision... and I know guys play girls all the time so why isn't it that easy for me to do now.. how the fuck do they do it? HELP!?


Cassie from O.C.

 Hey Cassie from the O.C.!

     Thanks for being so outspoken...makes my job fun!  So I see your dilemma and I tend to seesaw on these issues.  I am one for being an independent strong woman, guys have used us for sex vessels for so long and it's taken hundreds of years for women to finally recognize sex isn't just for them.  I don't necessarily think there is anything wrong with being intimate with more than one guy at a time in a period of your life.  Guys sure as hell aren't only with one girl at a time.  And they get high-fived for that.  And I commend you for protecting yourself during sex.  Everyone should be and I'm sure the guys appreciate that too.  But like everything, moderation is key and sometimes juggling that many guys gets complicated.  I can see where you start to get things mixed and up confused.  But these guys don't deserve you bitching at them because you confused Tom with Dick and Dick with Harry.  If it were me, I would try to whiddle it down, is there anything attractive about these guys other than sex?  Maybe with one of the guys you have a better connection...You both like Dances with the Stars or going to the movies together...I would rather spend more time trying to teach one guy the things that the other guys are doing right, then spread myself thin trying to get a little here and a little there.  Put some effort into it and see where it goes.  I hope this has helped and please update me and let me know how things are going.

 -Crystal