Often wonder why women go to the restroom in pairs?  Maybe this is why... 

 I worked with this girl for four years. We became the best girl friends. She was like my other half. I used to always joke that if she had a cock, I’d marry her. She was the perfect Scorpio. Sexual, into pleasing, funny, sensual and she had a great body. She used to come over to my desk and run her fingers up the back of my neck, play with my hair and massage my head. It was better than an orgasm. She was Armenian so she would do the double-kiss-on-the-cheek thing and I loved that she wasn’t freaked out if our lips got too close. If we were sitting down next to each other and put my hand on her thigh while stressing a point in our conversation she would never shy away. Many times she would take my hand right back. She was just very comfortable with my physical contact and I’m a very physical girl. One night she and I went out with our other really good friend. The three of us girls were out at a club, getting crazy attention, looking good. There was me, the dark-haired, tall, Native American girl. There was my friend, the short, big-bootied Puerto Rican girl with green eyes. And my Armenian soul mate with the hour glass figure and dark, sexy eyes. We’ve already downed our two drink minimum and we are writhing together to bass filled music, rubbing, touching, grinding in our own tight three person circle. Guys keep coming to try to scoot in between us but we aren’t interested. We are more interested in each other. I’m running my hands up and down my Armenian friend and as I lower myself in a dance move, my hands are in the crook of her knee and as I come back up my hands are on her bare legs, running up under her skirt. I’m getting dangerously close to where her legs meet and she’s making no point of stopping me. We are smiling and laughing and talking and our hair is pasted to our necks. We stop to get another drink and talk some more. We are entertained by telling guys that come up and hit on us that, “no, we weren’t with our boyfriends, but we are with our girlfriends.” Eat your heart out guys! After a couple more drinks and a couple more dances we all have to use the restroom. There are hordes of girls fighting for mirrors and stalls and my Puerto Rican friends finds a stall and my Armenian friend and I get shoved into a handicap stall together. We are giggling and holding each other to keep our intoxicated, high-heeled balance and as we fall into each other we start making out. Oh my god! I never thought it would happen. But then she sits down on the toilet, brings me to her by my thighs, pulls my skirt up and moves my thong to the side. She puts pressure under my thigh to get me to raise one leg to make my pussy easier for her to access and soon my foot is propped up on the toilet paper dispenser. She laps at my clit like a kitten drinking from a saucer of milk and I know we don’t have time. I hear my other friend’s toilet flush and I put my leg down and tell her I want to return the favor. She hikes up her skirt and pulls her own panties to the side and stands up. I turn my head side ways and fit it between her thighs and taste away. Before I can be satisfied my Puerto Rican friend is banging on the door asking us what the fuck we are doing. We giggle, give each other the signal to be quiet and finish going to the bathroom. Our night ends soon after and unfortunately we all have to go home to boyfriends. I know we both are thinking about it the whole way home but can’t say anything in front of our other friend. The next day at work neither of us says anything about it and still hasn’t. Is it a case of drunken loss-of-memory, or are we both waiting for the other one to say something? What do I do? I want so badly to have more of what I was only able to sample.

Hi there Crystal,

So here is my problem, if you can call it that. I am currently dating a pretty cool guy and I'm happy with him but lately my best friend and I have become sooooooooo close. "SHE" is amazing, "YES", she is. I think she is super hot and really sweet and I'm starting to look at her in a whole new different way. I have never felt this way towards any girl. I have always been into guys and now I find myself day dreaming of my best friend! I see here and my heart just melts, I always want to be with her and we are super close. We onced shared a very quick kiss back in H.S. but only because they dared us and we where buzz. I remember that day but I honestly don't recall feeling anything for her. Now, is a whole new story. I get so turned on by her, I picture myself kissing her and licking her tits and all this random crap. I don't know what to do??? She is also currently dating someone and lately, she has been spending more time with him and it is driving me nuts. I want to tell her how I feel but it might just end our friendship, I know she isn't into girls... I mean she has experimented but that is as far as it has gone. She told me nothing beats a "dick"... and I use to agree until I started to fall for her out of no where. What should I do? Even if she was up for it and wanted to experiment with me this time, I wouldn't know what to do to her, I mean this is all new. Suggestions? Leave it alone? Go for it?

Kim from Encino

Hi Kim,

      Thanks for writing.  That is definitely a tough one but it's a very normal feeling.  Many girls, especially your age start to experiment with their fantasies and with their friends.  Don't worry, it doesn't make you a lesbian, just feeling some strong emotions for her.  I'm gonna answer your questions as questions and not necessarily advice, I'm not horribly good with "relationship" advice.  One, if you were to mess around with her, what would happen with your boyfriend?  How serious of a relationship are you in and is messing around with her worth possibly losing him?  Two, the kiss you shared in high school is something lots of kids do, it doesn't mean she is sitting there in bed every night thinking about it like you do.  It's no big deal, she may have even forgot it.  Three, I will tell you though that if you guys are getting really close there is a possibility just by human nature that more experimenting may take place.  Especially were alcohol is present (hint, hint).  Another thing is, if nothing beats a dick, go buy one!  Seriously, you can get any shape, length, color dildo you want.  You can even get a double penetrating dildo too so both of you can wriggle around together.  Two women having sex can always have penetration any time they need it.  It's not just guys that can give it to us.  Try a strap on dildo and fuck her like a real man if she wants it more realistic.  Now your most important question is, do you leave it alone or pursue.  I would have to say she never gave you any reason to think she was interested, so if you value her friendship at all, let her start to become interested in you first before you push her away.  If you lose her, you lose twice...a good friend and a love interest.  Hope this was helpful in some ways.

 -Crystal