As we are awaiting another great question submission...I thought you might like if I shared a totally hot sexual experience that I've had with you all...enjoy!

 I was dating this Chilean guy for a while and we would make these “adult date nights” where I would get dressed up, we’d go out and have drinks, rent a dirty movie, pick out a new toy and go home and fuck all night.  One night after some sushi and sake, we stopped by Le Sex Shoppe and picked up Fashionistas with Belladonna and Rocco Siffredi, and a new cat o’ nine tails. Fast forward...we are in my living room on my cheap-ass metal-framed futon and the movie is playing in the background.  Belladonna is deepthroating Rocco and my Chileno is fastening my fuzzy, red handcuffs around my wrists and attaching them to the futon frame.  So now I’m naked on my knees, facing the back of the futon.  He’s walked away and I can hear him rummaging through my toy drawer.  As he walks back over, the light catches something in his hand.  It’s my glass butt plug. He comes over and puts it in my mouth and it clinks against my teeth as I try my best to lube it as much as possible.  He removes it and I feel the slightly warm tip start to spread my ass open.  He spins it to spread the wetness and applies pressure but my initial anxiety is making it hard to enter.  He rubs it around my pussyhole and is pleased to see it come away generously lubed.  Into my ass it goes.  My asshole swallows it to the stem.  With my ass in the air stuffed with my plug he can see into my asshole.  He gives my pussy a rub and walks away to the other side of the room and watches my ass hold the plug in while he strokes his cock.  I turn my head and see Belladonna bound by the wrists and ankles while another woman fucks her ass with a butt plug of her own.  I can’t help but be turned on.  He walks back over to me carrying our new cat o’ nine tails and the whipping commences. As my cheeks redden, he fondles his cock some more. He comes behind me and shoves his cock in me; his pelvis is pushing the plug in deeper.  I’m being double penetrated and I’m going nuts.  He pulls the plug out and marvels and the gaping hole it leaves behind.  He fingers it and watches my ass swallow the plug back up.  He pulls it back out and shoves it in my pussy while he jams his little cock into my ass. He presses my cheeks together trying to make the sensation tighter on his dick, but my ass is already all stretched out.  He plugs it again and starts working on my pussy.  Two fingers, three fingers and then I feel the fourth.  I’m so filled up but I feel him trying to work in his last finger.  It’s impossible.  But he’s getting it in there.  My pelvis is widening and more and more of his finger disappears.  I can’t believe how good it feels.  It’s like I have to pee but it’s driving me crazy.  I’m being fisted like a nasty slut in a porno and I like it so much.  He finally unlocks my wrists and puts me on the floor.  He’s trying so hard to gag me with his cock but it isn’t big enough.  He’s slapping me while his cock is in my mouth.  He takes turns between my ass and mouth for a while.  I’ve got saliva running down my tits and my ass is raw.  He finally cums all over my face and knocks out on the futon.  I’m left alone with Rocco and Belladonna.  While I play with my pussy I watch Rocco spit in Belladonna’s ass and it makes me cum. I love that movie.

 Hi Crystal,

Jennifer is Ashville, NC

Hey Jennifer!

     Great question, I totally feel for you, I’ve got my own old trusty vibrator that I am attached to but I always have to de-lint-ify it before I use it too.  I have two solutions for you.  One, if you are really attached to it for some reason you don’t have to get rid of it.  You could simply slip a condom over it every time you use it.  But if you and your boyfriend have been together for a long time and are maybe not into the condom thing too much I totally understand.  I am not too excited about using condoms over my toys, hell, they are mine and no one else inserts them into their bodies!  Two, you could ditch the old jelly/rubber/silicone (which ever it is) one you are using and get one that is smooth like a glass butt plug.  My butt plug is glass and I love it.  As long as you inspect it each time before use, it is totally safe.  Most glass sex toys are made of Pyrex or shatter-proof glass and there is also Lucite or acrylic.  They are also really cool because you can boil them to disinfect or put them in your dishwasher!  They also retain body heat really well so if your little booty doesn’t like the cold you can warm it up with your hands or warm water first; or if you do like cold sensations you can safely stick it in the refrigerator.  The possibilities are endless.

-Crystal

Hi Crystal,

      I think my question is probably really straight forward and easy.  I have anal sex off and on with a couple people and it was always few and far in between and only if I was drinking or inebriated somehow, which made it easier.  Now I am in a long term relationship with someone I love a lot and plan on being with for a long, long time, if not forever...I'm the first person he's ever had anal sex with and of course fell in love but it's not something he asks for too often but when he does ask, I like to give it to him.  My only dilemma is that being clean and sober, well taking his cock up my ass isn't exactly the easiest feat to contend with.  He isn't packing like a 12" dick or anything but he is above average and I am finding it harder and harder to let him in there.  Recently I got over my fear of trying what the experts say about pushing out a little while he is trying to push in, kinda like you gotta go to the bathroom.  I noticed that made things way easier, but one thing that I need help with is that baby oil works well for me but he says it is a little abrasive on his dick.  Is there a different lube you can recommend that will be thick enough that he doesn't wanna slide in too fast but that won't hurt him?  I appreciate your help...

 -Amanda

Hey Amanda, thanks for writing!  You are right, that is a relatively easy question to answer.  But it's not exaclty straight forward...I can give you some suggestions and then you will just have to chose whatever is best for you from trial and error.  The first thing I would recommend is for you to try out a silicone-based lubricant like Vivid Girl.  They don't dry up because they aren't primarily made of water.  They are also condom compatible but it doesn't sound like you guys are using condoms.  They do require soap and water for clean up though.  They are usually very thick and stay slick for a long time.  The other thing is the baby oil you are using is leaving an oily residue that can coat your rectum and lead to bacterial infections.  Don't want any of those in your booty.  And the last thing I want to mention, although you may not feel you need it but for my other readers that have this same question; there are the lubes that have desensitizing agents in them to help ease into the anal sex world.  Products like Anal Eze and and Tush Eze.  These types of lubes have Benzocaine in them to help numb the anal area and are required to work into the area a few minutes before penetration.  The only thing with these lubes is that you want to make sure he is wearing a condom or else his cock will also be desensitized and then he'll be ramming that little tight ass of yours all night!  Ouch!  Thanks for writing, let me know what works!  And have fun...

 -Crystal