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More and more it seems women are buying the wrong vibrators and aren't happy with them.  I hear more and more women asking each other: "If you can't try one out and return it when you realize it's not the right one, how can I educate myself and buy the right one the first time?"  I've often wondered that myself and I've fully educated myself.  Come check out my eHow article that I wrote to help enlighten everyone...How To Choose The Right Vibrator.

As we are awaiting another great question submission...I thought you might like if I shared a totally hot sexual experience that I've had with you all...enjoy!

 I was dating this Chilean guy for a while and we would make these “adult date nights” where I would get dressed up, we’d go out and have drinks, rent a dirty movie, pick out a new toy and go home and fuck all night.  One night after some sushi and sake, we stopped by Le Sex Shoppe and picked up Fashionistas with Belladonna and Rocco Siffredi, and a new cat o’ nine tails. Fast forward...we are in my living room on my cheap-ass metal-framed futon and the movie is playing in the background.  Belladonna is deepthroating Rocco and my Chileno is fastening my fuzzy, red handcuffs around my wrists and attaching them to the futon frame.  So now I’m naked on my knees, facing the back of the futon.  He’s walked away and I can hear him rummaging through my toy drawer.  As he walks back over, the light catches something in his hand.  It’s my glass butt plug. He comes over and puts it in my mouth and it clinks against my teeth as I try my best to lube it as much as possible.  He removes it and I feel the slightly warm tip start to spread my ass open.  He spins it to spread the wetness and applies pressure but my initial anxiety is making it hard to enter.  He rubs it around my pussyhole and is pleased to see it come away generously lubed.  Into my ass it goes.  My asshole swallows it to the stem.  With my ass in the air stuffed with my plug he can see into my asshole.  He gives my pussy a rub and walks away to the other side of the room and watches my ass hold the plug in while he strokes his cock.  I turn my head and see Belladonna bound by the wrists and ankles while another woman fucks her ass with a butt plug of her own.  I can’t help but be turned on.  He walks back over to me carrying our new cat o’ nine tails and the whipping commences. As my cheeks redden, he fondles his cock some more. He comes behind me and shoves his cock in me; his pelvis is pushing the plug in deeper.  I’m being double penetrated and I’m going nuts.  He pulls the plug out and marvels and the gaping hole it leaves behind.  He fingers it and watches my ass swallow the plug back up.  He pulls it back out and shoves it in my pussy while he jams his little cock into my ass. He presses my cheeks together trying to make the sensation tighter on his dick, but my ass is already all stretched out.  He plugs it again and starts working on my pussy.  Two fingers, three fingers and then I feel the fourth.  I’m so filled up but I feel him trying to work in his last finger.  It’s impossible.  But he’s getting it in there.  My pelvis is widening and more and more of his finger disappears.  I can’t believe how good it feels.  It’s like I have to pee but it’s driving me crazy.  I’m being fisted like a nasty slut in a porno and I like it so much.  He finally unlocks my wrists and puts me on the floor.  He’s trying so hard to gag me with his cock but it isn’t big enough.  He’s slapping me while his cock is in my mouth.  He takes turns between my ass and mouth for a while.  I’ve got saliva running down my tits and my ass is raw.  He finally cums all over my face and knocks out on the futon.  I’m left alone with Rocco and Belladonna.  While I play with my pussy I watch Rocco spit in Belladonna’s ass and it makes me cum. I love that movie.

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I wanted to tell anyone interested about the new gift that was bought for me.  I had a particularly nice gentleman buy me a new toy for my collection.  The Wild G Vibrator.  My old vibrator  was in desperate need of retirement and I was delighted when my package came straight to my desk via USPS.  I got home last night, finished all of my "chores", the gym, dinner, laundry, straightening up...and decided to reward myself.  I called out into the living room, "Babe, wanna try my new toy out on me?!"  And at once heard heavy, hasty footsteps.  I heard him lock himself in the bathroom (probably taking a bird bath) and opened the postal box, dumped out the packaging paper and the vibrator package.  I shoved three AA batteries in the battery charger I always have plugged in my wall and unpatiently waiting for the red indicator light to extinguish.  I came back over to my bed and took my new beautiful vibrator out of the package.  I must say at first glance, I was intimidated by its size.  I will say that it definitely wasn't made for women that want to be penetrated by smaller sized dildos.  But it was beautiful, more purple than the blue color in the picture.  And the ball bearings that are in the rotating middle section are on this cool, high-tech looking gear system.  It was made to never get jammed.  Now let me tell you about it's curves.  The picture doesn't do it's curvy-ness justice.  I was already getting excited running my hands over it, flicking at the clit stimulator.  You can't really tell from the picture but the clit stimulator has two little (what I would call) spikes on them, lower down on the shaft, so depending on how deep you insert the dildo part, the clit stimulation changes...

 I hear the water in the bathroom turn off as the last red indicator light on the battery charger goes out.  I shove the batteries in their respective place, lean over my bed to my toy drawer and pull out my Astroglide and roll over on my back, naked on a towel on my bed.  As he walks in I smile at him and brandish my new toy at him, he pretend-pouts and says, "but it's bigger than me!"  He stands at the side of the bed with his hips eye-level with my face and holds the control portion of the vibrator as I stroke it with Astroglide.  I can see him growing in his shorts as he begins to try to insert it in me.  He is cautious, too much so for my excitement as he slowly works just the top third into me.  I grab his wrist and force him to shove the remainder of it in me all at once.  I feel the curves of the shaft slide over my g-spot twice and immediately get that subtle, telltale urge to pee.  Before he has to chance to ask for my approval of the toy and its depth, I claw his shorts down and stifle my moans with his cock.  He sets the controls on the rotating head/rotating beads on 2 and sets the clit stimulator on setting 1 of 3.  I'm doing a horrible job of blowing him as I am enjoying my own pleasures way too much.  He's experimenting with just flicking my clit with the upper portion of the clit stimulator, which puts the rotating head right on my g-spot and then changes to pushing the whole stimulator up on my crotch which makes my whole pussy tremor.  Like this, the beads are rotating on my spot.  I know that he is enjoying the show too because I can taste droplets of precum and he keeps having to pull away from me to regain composure.  After a couple more minutes of me giving him a chaotic, sloppy blow job I decide that I like the flicking/rotating head feeling better.  I gently pull his wrist back just a little and when he hears my moaning ascend, he figures it out.  I'd say a whole whopping 3 minutes later I was wildly thrashing and whimpering on his cock as I finally had to pull the vibrator out of me and pant myself back to regular breathing.

 All-in-all, I would wrap up my review by saying I can't wait to get home today and do it all over again.  It was wonderful, pleasantly large, gorgeous to look at and well built.  I got great power with just the use of three AA batteries instead of four and it cleaned up pretty well with my spray on anti-bacterial toy cleaner. 

P.S.  For those of you worried that I left him hanging, trust me, he jumped in the saddle and road me long and hard afterward...(well he was pretty excited, I don't really know about the "long" part.) 

 

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Good evening everyone! 

I just wanted to do a little follow up post to the challenge I posted on admitting to masturbating at work.  And instead of the replies being hidden in the comments section, I thought I'd post them out here for everyone to see.  Maybe more of you will get brave and "cum" clean!

Ro Says: "Very pleasant thoughts ... and not an unpleasant picture either! Yes, of course I've masturbated at work - carefully avoiding the security cameras. I hate to be boring though but it's (almost) always been in the restroom ... what better kind of rest can there be after all?"

 

Adam Says: "Masturbating at work, in the work toilets, in public toilets, even up on a deserted (well, almost) heath in Yorkshire many years ago. The thought of being caught - rather than caught on film - adds a certain spice to the whole, and helps deflate a certain amount of frustration at times too."

 Solo Says: "Absolutly I've jacked off at work. Naturaly in all the rest rooms at the plant I worked at. But also in the power house, underground tunnels, office areas, attics, crawl spaces and womens rest rooms, after hours. Being a volunteer fireman I jacked off in the cab of all the trucks."

Timytickle says: "I've often masturbated in office and business bathroom stalls. I've even found little secret places where I could stroke off into a cup...or a napkin.... But, the clincher and a dangersous one...was when I actually jacked off at my desk during business hours. I have a sweetmate who is gone a lot and I took the chance that neither he nor anyone else would discover me. I actually had one of my email pen pals on the phone...and he talked dirty and made all these demands on me...and I shot my load into one of my own socks. It was dangerous but still sexy for me to think about."

And Crystal says:  "Meow!!!!  You guys make me hot!  Now I gotta go play with my pussy and try to cool off!  Keep up the good work fellow professional masturbators!"

Hi there again everyone.  I was thinking about this the other day and I know I can't be the only one...Come on now, be honest….How many times have you gotten completely out-of-your-mind horny at work? Sometimes for no reason at all, maybe you saw something that got you horny, or remembered what you were doing last night or the weekend before. I know I have. Yes guys, girls masturbate at work too. Guys aren’t the only ones that get overcome by complete loss of self-control and jack off in empty office suites while they are installing cubicles in the middle of the night. I’ve pulled into underground parking garages and parked against walls, hoping no one would walk out into the car near me unbuttoned and unzipped. Breaking a sweat, peering into my rear view mirror hoping no one walks up, my arms shaking and my fingers getting cramped from being shoved into tight pants. Tweaking my clit until I get my panties wet. I used to work in an office where there was only one women’s restroom. I could lock the door and pull my slacks down and spread my legs as far as I wanted to be able to play with my pussy. Now I work in a busy building and it seems like on those days where I’m just overcome with animal lust, I try to lock myself in the restroom and someone sits down in a stall next to me. Ugh, there goes my fantasy. Now I’ve got my own office. I can shut and lock my door, hike my heels up on my desk, pull my skirt up and diddle all I want. Sometimes I can hear people walk by my door and it makes it more exciting. I log on to a good porn site and watch a few minutes of some amateur anal video and in two minutes flat I’m dripping come on my chair. Having cool air on my pussy while I’m sitting in my office makes me go crazy. And when I’m done and my hands are shaking and I can barely walk in my stilettos, I have to make a beeline for the sink and wash my hands before anyone wants to shake them. Gosh, sometimes I wish I were a guy. It seems so easy to just take your cock out and stroke it, jack it off anywhere. There is something about thinking of a guy jacking off that makes me apeshit horny. So tell me, have you ever? If you have, leave a comment and tell me when and where. It just might send me to that point where I have to shut and lock my door. Ladies, you too. I know you have done it. Tell me about it and make me play with myself right now.

 

-Crystal

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Crystal -- I am just 18 and in my first sexual experiences. Always safe sex. Here is a question I cannot get my self to ask my current girlfriend, who has more experience than I do. First, can a girl tell the difference when a guy is using a condom or not? And does it make a difference in the quality of the sex? Second, can a girl tell when a guy cums when he is/is not using a condom? And does it make a difference.

Thanks

Well hello there Mr. Anonymous 18 year old...How's it going?  Glad you stumbled onto my site.  This is a good place to ask questions when it's hard to ask someone more experienced than you.  And at your age, guys are trying so hard to be macho the thought of asking a girl a sex question is totally out of the picture.  I have answers for you but I'm trying hard not to read more into these questions.  I hope your inquiries aren't in some way leading to you wanting to try to pull a fast one on a girl and tell her you are wearing a condom when indeed you aren't.  Anyway, here is what I think...Can you tell the difference between condom and no condom?  I'd say yes for a couple of reasons.  One, when trying to slip your dick in for the first time, that little reservoir tip has a telltale feeling to it when it's rubbing around your entrance.  Two, I can definitely say that if you have pubic hair, whether it's trimmed down tight or au naturale, you can still feel a definite difference as the base of the condom is rubbing around down there.  But, just for science purposes, I do want to point out that believe it or not, there aren't a whole lot of nerve endings that are ultra-sensitive actually in the vaginal canal and as tight as condoms are, you can't really feel them in there.  Just those two little places, the tip and the base.  Especially if you say your girl is more experienced than you, she would be able to tell the difference for sure.  Quality of sex you ask?  I know for you there is a difference, the sensitivity in your penis is being masked by a thin layer of latex, but for us, all we need is our clit stimulated or our g-spot hit and we are good.  We aren't the ones wearing the condom so it doesn't desensitize anything for us.  Your third question about a girl knowing when you cum is a little more complicated.  I know that if a guy tried to fake an orgasm on me, condom or not, especially if he were someone I've had sex with before, I would know.  Women learn to know what the little, almost hard to detect feelings are of a man's penis throbbing and pulsing as they are ejaculating.  Especially if we practice our Kegel exercises and can squeeze down on you with our pussy.  I don't know a woman that could actually feel the "squirting" of the cum but the spasm of the penis, for sure.  And of course that doesn't matter if you are wearing a condom or not.  I would advise though that you don't cum in a condom and try to play it off like you didn't and keep going just so she will think that you are some stud because although the semen goes into the reservoir tip, if you keep pumping away in there, there is a definite chance of it seeping back out.  So please, feel free to ask me more questions and continue to be safe.  For you and for her.  You are way too young to be living with possibly a disease or a baby for the rest of your life.  And take into consideration that there is a whole bunch of fun condoms you can choose from to keep it fun in the bedroom, there are ultra-sensitive for you, ribbed, flavored, colored and even condoms that have little bumps and nubbies on the inside to pleasure you too.  Have fun!  Be safe!

                                                                   

Crystal,
Wow! Thank you so much for the response. When I was writing I was half embarrassed, and half nervous for never really sending off such a plea for advice before concerning sex. I had a suspicion that what I sent was too short and not enough detail to actually get my situation down right. So, as you requested so eloquently, here is more information.
Before this woman I have never been with a girl who A. enjoys giving as much as she does receiving and B. wanted me to cum in her mouth. As I stated in my first e-mail, our sexual chemistry is out of this world as well as our openness to each other about what we like, dislike, pushes our buttons, gets us off and so forth. It is for all tense and purposes all there… except for my problem.
I do think at times it is a mental block of some sort because as you pointed out most of the previous woman I have been with, (ex-wife, past girlfriends) never was interested in fellatio. Sure, I would at times get the occasional token blow job, but that was about it. I also think it is a mental situation where like you said, I know she wants me to release in her mouth and so the pressure is on and that is what I think about even though I try not to. I don’t ever recall her voicing a statement that it is taking too long during the act. Sure we have discussed it just like we discuss many aspects of our sex but it has always been more of a productive conversation between the both of us discussing what we liked about so and so, or what didn’t work, or what we could change with something that didn’t seem to work that time.
This is what I or should I say we, because we have discussed this together, don’t understand. She was able to do it once but we have never been able to reproduce the same results. Let me emphasize so you can clearly understand. There are several occasions where it actually feels like I am blowing my load. When I stated previously that my eyes felt like they were rolling back into my skull that was how awesome it felt. Yet when she stops, me feeling like I had released she would inform me that I didn’t and I am left for a brief moment dumbfounded. She says there are such things as dry ejaculations, but she doesn’t think that is it for the simple fact that she knows when I actually ejaculate by my physical change both in twitching/pulsating of my penis and my breath or shortness of it.
As far as insecurity wise of my penis possibly being the problem, I would have to say no. While I am average in length and girth I know for a fact it gets the job done especially with her. I know, that really sounded conceded but it is the truth. I have had girls before who faked orgasms with me and this girl can’t do that. She is a squirter so it is really hard to fake that. You also asked if I have ever had any problems like this before with other woman and the answer is again no. She is the very first woman to ever bring me over the top with fallatio, even if it has been just once and that is what is frustrating to both of us. She did it once but for what ever reason hasn’t been able to do it again.
Your point about desensitization may also be a valid point, yet I have to go back to the times it felt like I was even though I wasn’t. She changes her methods during her giving me fellatio and yes at times she does it at a time where I feel I am almost there or she stops to give her self a rest and uses her hands to keep me stimulated. But then there are other times like I stated where I feel as if that is all I am doing is cuming but she doesn’t stop because I haven’t.
I hope this either brings out more questions and or gives you a better insight to draw other conclusions to help.

 

Retta I'm so glad you got back to me!  You left me wringing my mind all night trying to think if there was something better I could have told you.  And although you have given me an abundance of information in your latest comment, I think I can only help brainstorm with you and not necessarily yelp out, "Eureka I've got it!"  So let me start by addressing things in the order you gave them in your comment.  First let me ask the dumb, obvious question, when you have intercourse and have an orgasm are you ejaculating or is it also dry?  I'm fighting with myself because you start to say that you have never been with a woman who has enjoyed giving you head and furthermore wanted you to ejaculate into her mouth.  That is normally a red flag for me to say mental block for sure.  In that situation I would assume you are insecure that for once, if you let go, your fears may be realized and she may show her aversion or distaste of your semen in her mouth.  But what makes that theory not stick for me is the fact that you are building up to some feeling of joy and euphoria where even you are fooled by the fact that there is no semen involved.  With a mental block you don't get those feelings.  This same point also rules out the prospect that maybe she's just not getting you off orally but it seems like you are really enjoying these moments with her and you guys have great communication.  Point being, I hate reading sites and books by people who say that they are there to give you sex advice but every time you ask them a question they tell you to make a doctor appointment.  I don't normally want to do that but I do know that there are what the layperson has termed "dry orgasm" that are caused by your ejaculate being pushed back into your bladder instead of out your urethra.  Though this act itself cannot harm your health, it can be caused by such things as diabetes or certain drugs that are used to treat prostate enlargement like alpha blockers.  And between you and I, if you were on a prescription for enlarged prostate I'm sure you would have mentioned it.  In conclusion, what I'm wondering here is what are you missing?  If you are having a great sex life and you are feeling like you are having an orgasm and you are healthy, I would say leave it alone.  I know that actually getting the shooting, spurting cum shot can be fun, but if you guys love each other and are pleasing each other every other way possible I'd say que sera, sera.

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Hi Crystal,
Interesting blog you have, I commend you for your abilities and knowledge.
So, here is my situation. I have been dating a woman for 7 months now. Our sex life is awesome to say the least. We are very good chemistry wise when it comes to intercourse and me giving her cunnilingus. It is when she gives back orally that I am having a problem with. In the course of our relationship she has managed to make me cum orally only once. There have been several times where she has gotten me to the point of rolling my eyes back into my skull but to no avail I could not release even though it seem I was over and over again. I know she is on occasion disappointed that for what ever reason I can’t because the look in her eyes. Though she never says a thing and throws her ass in the air enticing me to finish I know she wants to bring me over the top orally. I am not a big fan of ball play, occasionally it is okay but it doesn’t do the trick either. Any help is appreciated.

Retta

Hi There Retta!

Thanks so much for the compliment, you have no idea what it means to me.  I totally sympathize with you in your case.  I was in a relationship like that for 6 years.  I am going to do my best to help you but you have to take into consideration that there is probably a barrage of questions I would ask if we were having a conversation in real time.  But I am going to bring up two ideas that immediately came to mind as I was reading your email.  The very first thing was - mental block.  Are you somehow inhibited, in your mind, from wanting to have an orgasm?  I know it sounds nuts but it could be the simplest thing like you are insecure of your penis, the size, color, smell, taste.  Or maybe one time a thousand years ago on a date she told you she doesn't like to swallow so every time you get close your subconscious gives you a guilt trip and you stop yourself.  Have you ever had problems with anyone else?  It doesn't sound like it.  Maybe one of the very first times she ever tried to make you orgasm from fellatio she mentioned something like "gosh it's taking a long time" or "I'm getting tired" so now every time she goes down on you, you are doing the "oh god please hurry up and cum, oh god please hurry up and cum" thing that so many of us do and it's just fucks everything up for us anyway.  You have to tell me more, please.  The other thing I think that I know has happened to me (just like the above scenario) is that the person giving doesn't exactly know what you like or even how to do it right and so they do the same thing over and over and over and over, and it isn't really enough stimulation to get your over that hump, passed the point of no return.  Istead, their repetitive movements in a way, desensitizes your penis and so you never can get there.  I know for sure I've had that done to me, I've even done it to myself.  Or maybe she is doing the same thing over and over and just as you are peaking, she needs a break, so she stops the rhythm and there you go, you are back to square one, which means she is back to square one, which equals everyone being frustrated.  Oh Retta, I feel for you.  I had a man once tell me with his head still between my legs, "You take too long" and from that day on every time he would make his way down there, my eyes would be glued to my digital alarm clock trying to time when I should tell him to just come back up, that it wasn't going to happen today.  Please don't let this happen to you.  Please help me help you figure out what is going on.  Email me again or post comments to this post so I can get more info from you.  Thanks so much for sharing with me.

 -Crystal

Dear Crystal,

     A very long time ago, an old boyfriend had a porn flick where in the very last scene a woman used a vibrator in a guy's ass.  I wasn't alone when I was watching it or I think I would have had a spontaneous, un-aided orgasm right then and there.  My heart rate escalated, my head and neck got hot, my clit started pulsing and I was apeshit horny.  I didn't know what to do with myself.  I was ashamed that I had such a reaction but I felt like my head was gonna explode it made me so horny.  Needless to say, the very first chance I had at home alone I shoved that VHS (can you tell it was a long time ago) into the VCR, fast-forwarded to that part and tweaked my clit for a whole 3 seconds until I came.  So skipping a couple months ahead, my boyfriend went out of town and I headed over to my favorite adult book store to rent a movie.  Street parking sucked so I always parked in the back where they conveniently stocked the gay porn.  As I stroll into the dimly lit, disinfectant smelling store, the images on the covers of the movies caught my eye and I caught myself having that same reaction again...heart racing, temperature elevating, oh no, what do I do?  As I start picking up movies and turning them over to see the pics on the back I've made up my mind.  I've gotta rent one.  This is what I have to have, it's what I need.  I pick up one of Paul Morgan's flicks and shyly take it up to the counter.  Oh god, I was so nervous the huge bouncer-looking guy was gonna think I was weird.  He didn't so much as double-take the fact that I was renting a movie called "Mystery Man".  I raced home and locked my bedroom door (don't know why, no one was home) and started the movie.  Long story short, it took three different orgasms just to get passed the trailers of other movies.  Ten years later, it's still all that gets me off.  I can watch straight porn with my lover but it just doesn't raise my blood pressure the way guys fucking each other does.  I don't rent the stuff with kissing and loving and rubbing.  I just wanna see straight fucking, fingering, dildos, vibrators, anything with penetration.  Seeing a cock enter an ass with two sets of balls swinging drives me nuts.  I by no means want my boyfriends to fuck other guys, and I don't even want them to enjoy the porn with me.  So I'm sure you are saying, "so what, what's the problem?"  And the problem is that I'm tired of hiding it.  The couple times that I have shared this info with boyfriends that I have trusted, they immediately think I'm sick, have a problem, am disgusting....blah, blah, blah.  But I don't want to have to delete my history or my cookies or worry every time they log onto my computer that they are gonna come across a page that I've been surfing on.  I'm not a 14 year old with my dad's Playboy.  Am I sick?  And if not, how do I get my lover to understand?

 Thanks for listening...From the Gay Porn Junkie

                                                                               

     Hi There Gay Porn Junkie,

     I sympathize with your problem.  So many men are closed-minded to many things.  I can only imagine how close-minded they are to their woman wanting to watch two guys sword fight or push their stool in for them!  ;)  But let me agree with you that indeed you aren't 14 and you shouldn't have to hide anything.  They are lucky you aren't pushing it on them.  What ever you want to watch in private should not concern them, I could see if you were taking time away from them to do it but it seems that you are only doing it when they are not readily available to please you.  Personally, I say to each his own, watch whatever gets you off as long as it doesn't involve children or animals.  Indulge!  But to calm your insecurities, there are many women who love to watch gay porn.  I wish I could give you a statistic but so many women would never admit to it that no percentage would be accurate.  Many women like it for lots of reasons.  Some are attracted to it because it's so taboo and forbidden.  Some like it because not all women want plot and emotion and many gay movies are just hot, chiseled men straight fucking with no strings attached.  Another reason is that the arousal is real.  It isn't like women where they can moan and groan on command, fake orgasms and no one will ever know.  If their cock is hard, it's because they like it.  Period.  And then there is the masculinity factor, these guys are hot, well-groomed, they have very little body hair (aside from the bear movies) and they are typically in great shape.  Some women have rape/forced fantasies but they don't like to see weak women as the victims of other men.  So they watch the locker room/military/jail gay porn where they depict forced, less-than-consentual sex between men.  If I were you I would hold my head high, tell your man that this is what you are into, you aren't pressuring him into it.  Reassure him that you don't want him to ever be with another man.  That him being with another man is not part of the fantasy.  I bet he likes to watch female on female porn...and why?  It's ultra-feminine.  Two beautiful women lapping up each others pussy juices ever so gently.  Why can't you see men being manly together?  Get on the net with him and search forums where women are talking about how they like gay porn, there are lots of them.  Then he will see it's not just you.  Stop being insecure and embrace yourself, be you and don't worry.  As long as you guys make time for each other, sooner or later he won't care what you do with yourself when you are by yourself.  Hope this helps, keep me updated!

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